Some people will get this right away.
Some people may learn the hard way.
Think of your family and friends and how they were before they crossed over. Think about other's family and friends. Now think of them in the spirit world, still being the same personality they were before they left. Would you feel comfortable with them being around you? Do you know if they are?
I brought this up due to a question I asked my guides once. Why are people, who used to be friendly, now being indifferent or not as sociable? Is it me? Have I said something? Do I need to make amends?
They said: You don't, but there are those who don't want people knowing what they're doing to the minds of the physical. They will subject emotions to move them away because they feel you're a threat to their endeavors. If anyone needs to make amends, they do and not necessarily to you.
Ah, I see. I get it. Thanks.
