Does God Take Sides?

Can we pray to God for help? Absolutely! However, it might be a good idea to keep in mind that if anyone chooses to bring God into the equation, and if he wishes to get involved, he may go with what's right for many (higher purpose) and not because of someone's idealogy, race, gender, or political opinion.

For instance: In Genesis 21:9-12, Sarah confronted Abraham over his passive and tolerant attitude toward Ishmael’s destructive behavior toward Isaac. She insisted that he get rid of Hagar and Ishmael. Abraham was reluctant to do so and the Bible stated that Sarah’s demand was very upsetting to him. Nevertheless, God took Sarah’s side and said to Abraham: "Whatever Sarah has said to you, listen to her voice; for in Isaac your seed shall be called."

It was not a matter of who had authority over whom; it was a matter of what was right in that situation. Sarah happened to be right and God requested that Abraham carry out her wish. However, if we investigate further, we may see a deeper meaning. The reason for taking her side was due to a planned future. That's the side which was actually taken. Sarah was only an instrument for that plan. 

This taught me that we can ask but that doesn't mean we'll receive, especially if we don't know what side God may have already chosen and why.