Teaching Your Children Selfish Love? No?

It's important to teach our children that caring and loving is a two way street. Anything that is constantly one-sided will eventually be rebuked by family or friends; unless one chooses to be subservient to another's wishes. I don't, because I feel that's a selfish love. 

Besides, where has it ever been written that anyone should do anything for another under those conditions?

That's one of the problems with our world today. I see far too many people having their hand out expecting to receive and forget to hold their hand out to show appreciation. When did we learn that this type of behavior is acceptable or that someone should attempt to make another feel guilty because they aren't performing to their wishes? 

How's this for guilt? If your life is so busy that you or your children cannot talk to the grandparents (family/friends), but you want them to be there and be caring, then shame, shame, shame on you! 

Give what you want to receive and teach your children the same!

If you want someone to show your children that they care, then teach your children to respond in kind. Teach them to pick up a phone and show appreciation and be gracious for a gift they've received, so they learn not to expect. Pick up a phone and call a family member, who you want to be there for you, and your children, and just say ... hi, I'm calling to see how you're doing ... and get involved in their life. Teach your children these caring and loving manners and not just to call when it's a special occasion, or that they are expecting something in return. 

If not, then don't expect anything in return, because, after all, you are showing them that love is one-sided by your actions of not teaching them, and yourselves, responsibility, kindness, caring and respect? 

Teach them to show interest in another and not just in themselves. Even a quick text from a busy older child can say: I'm putting "me" aside to show I care for "you" and not only what you can do for me. It could, with any luck, rub off on the parent too. Everyone gains! 

That's why I decided to write this blog, because of the ME generation. I hear this from parents about how they are griping about grandparents, or other family members, that they just want their child to know that these people care and to be there for them. However, what I'm sensing they really mean is: I don't understand why they're not kissing my butt like I feel they should or like they use to do. 

Be there for my child? Show my child you care? My response: what are you teaching your child? Are you teaching them to show support and love too? Maybe the constant me-me demands of "I want" or "I need" is causing the chasm of discontent from those who now feel they are not "giving freely" but being "taken advantage of" because of numerous one-sided wishes, wants, expectations, or demands. 

Furthermore, if anyone finds themselves in a situation about whining over a discontent, over something not going their way, it could be time to stop pointing fingers and look within to see what they, or their child (children), are contributing towards the love and caring that they may be expecting from others. 

If you're not involving yourself in another's life, you have no right to expect anything from them, especially financially, whether that be family or friends. 

If you know anyone like this then do yourself, and them, a favor by sharing this blog and remind them that love and caring is not selfish ... not one-sided ... not all about me, me, woe is me. Take off the blinders. 

Selfish love is bad behavior and not the same as loving oneself ... it's a different set of emotions. I don't know about you, but I don't reward bad attitude or bad behavior. 

 

Trusting Your Instincts? What If They're Blocked?

 

 

I know that long blogs can be daunting, so I must apologize in advance for this being longer than I had originally anticipated. It is a lot to share on how I gained this information. I cannot force anyone to read it, however, if you are persistent, you will be astonished by what you read and hear. Of this, I have no doubt, so please hang in there and questions are always welcomed.  

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Always trust your instincts or inner voice? What if that inner voice isn't yours? I hear and read a lot of comments about trusting one's instincts or intuition, while also reading things like "I trust my soul center," as they point to their heart area. Well, I'm happy for them, but as many know, there is good and bad in everything. I won't go into the semantics of good and bad but only to say that in my understanding of it, good and bad is only relative to what side of the fence anyone is standing on when something is going on and they haven't heard the other side of the story in order to compare. Enough said!

 

I see some metaphysical people spouting all this glorious enlightenment and I look at their words, sense their thoughts and think, they haven't gone the distance ... the same distance I did. Yes, I was in their shoes at one time thinking all was peaches and cream in the universe. Well, if it's not on the planet why would it be elsewhere? On earth as it is in heaven?

 

Anyway, to continue on with the blog title: no, we cannot always trust our instincts and intuition, especially from our soul center. Why? Well, for one reason, one would have to have an awareness in their soul to do so ... it would have to be in the soul to understand life and as most know, from looking around this planet, not everyone does. Young souls or minds, as well as damaged souls or minds, may not have that awareness and/or it can be blocked from them.

Yes, blocked and/or caught up in a flow of deceit!

 

This is why I chose to finally write this blog due to my awareness and constantly being advised that what a person may be saying, about trusting their instincts, wasn't what my guidance were picking up about them. The first time I saw this  "blocking," "guiding" or "protection" was nearly twenty-five years ago when I was already awakened and participated in a vision I was told was called an All Call with the universe, which took place in August 1989. My guide left for his walk-in (interchange of souls) in January 1988 and the actual all call was before, in December 1987, before he left. I was unaware of it due to my lack of training at the time

 

Before I get into this all call, I want to explain another lesson that I learned about blocking, which occurred years before I was aware of spirits being around me my entire life, and why I understand all this now. I was having some serious issues over something that was going on with a family member and the natural instincts that should have been there were camouflaged by emotions to stop judging, along with other things to establish guilt thoughts within me for thinking anything so wicked. Later it turns out that the battle of good and evil going on in my mind was based on truth but what kept me from acting on it was that there was no physical evidence, at the time, along with the guilt I had felt for thinking bad thoughts about someone that was being kind on the surface. This taught me that a battle going on in my mind is for a reason but not always will the reason present itself immediately if there's interference.

So, you see, unless you are fully aware, you can be blocked or used to hurt another, or keep from knowing the truth which can hurt you.

 

Now, what I was asked to share for "proof" was from this all call, which I previously mentioned, along with a soul beginning video I made some time ago. These two things showed me how we can have a "keeper of our soul," as my original guide called it, and/or an invasion of our soul ... which can be determined by the emotions of their intent.

 

In my true story book, I wrote about this all call (below) in it's entirety, which took several pages. I was aware my guide had left for a walk-in for me but did not know there was an all call to make that decision. Silly me! I didn't know anyone was involved in my life much less permission was needed to prevent interference. You could have knocked me over with a feather when I discovered this. After I met Zabrona, who came to my rescue, he advised me of this all call and I went into a universal holding to see what had transpired in the past ... by this time more than a year had gone by since this had occurred. What I saw in this all call was truly amazing, because physical people were involved in this decision and not just spirits. This was the part they wanted me to share from my book: GREAT FLAME WITHIN - The Story of a Forgotten Master. This is how they, of knowing, do things out there, which I underlined, below, for emphasis.

 

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Excerpt:

It is a week before Christmas in 1987. There is a feeling of suspense hanging in the air. Everywhere you look there is dark but clear energy, like looking into a smoky topaz.  A few darker, undefined forms start appearing, which seem suspended in space.

            Our attention is drawn to the right, to one of the suspended forms. It appears to be a physical, female energy and from the emotions around her, we are told she's asleep. It is late night, in this area, and the universe has come alive with an ALL CALL.

            "What do you mean?" Boyaed, a master spirit, demands to the universe. "What do you mean come up into the universe? I'm in the universe!"

            A fast emotion is felt by Boyaed challenging his truth. You can feel a tension building. He is under a judgment. An all call has convened and, it appears, he is the reason. He responds to the emotion.

            "No, you're right. I'm in her body."

The female form takes shape as we look closer at the body. She becomes clearer, more defined. There in bed is a tall, slender woman with auburn hair, sleeping. It, suddenly, becomes obvious, to those concerned, that the body of the woman sleeping is Charlene, Boyaed's channel.

            In the center of her chest there is a large, glowing circle, which is starting to extend away from her. Inside the circle there is an image of an older, stocky built man with blond hair to his shoulders, just sitting there as he talks to everyone; but, now, the circle is vanishing. We view the image extending away from her body.

It is a sight that is awesome to the beholder. This is a powerful, old god of the universe. He is expanding, staggering the imagination, in his height. He stands there, his grand figure looking around, then resumes with his feelings.

"But, I'm ....."

"Omnipresence!" A voice shouts off to one side.

            "Yes, I'm omnipresent." Boyaed replies. "I can be anywhere in this universe and in her body. What do you want?" He questions, defiantly, but with sorrow. 

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This was the first time I realized what can go on in another dimension. I have a You Tube video playlist, which I am talking about my true story, chapter by chapter, however the book is more detailed. This is why I made these videos, I wanted to get my story told and what I learned from it; not only for emotional relief of what had happened to me but to help others too. This can be viewed later, at your leisure, if you want.

 

Creator Reincarnation Eternity Proven - True Story

http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEA4360020015E2B0 

 

To continue, you can see, from this all call excerpt, the point my guidance is hopefully making with everyone regarding our soul center and the guidance or interference of it. To them, being inside someone's body, like this, is an invasion. Boyaed's reasoning was to keep people from snatching my soul away due to my soul's past lives. I didn't find fault in that, at the time, but higher guidance assures me that it can cause more trouble because of what's in his soul and him being attacked too, bringing more things to me for what he was doing.

 

This reasoning would be similar to a bad spirit hanging out in a good person's body and the good person wants to know why his/her life has suddenly changed for the worse ... and yes, vice versa.

 

The next thing that they wanted me to present to everyone, for understanding, was the soul beginning videos I did some time ago. I did each one in the moment. What you see is me seeing, hearing and feeling, right along with the viewer. They, over 300 videos, were all so fascinating and I felt myself become even more educated about the ways of the universe. However, it is one in particular that showed another example of soul center invasion and the one they wanted me to share. Each soul beginning video I did was less then ten minutes, there were a few that took two videos due to the controversy that was going on at the time and the length of time it took to resolve it, his was one of those, as you will see while watching. There are two videos to watch in order to see what can go on out there and within us ... for a number of reasons ... and I'm sure they will astound the viewer ... as I was while making them.
 

Please read his comments too. These two videos are called ...

How did MY SOUL begin - djmisplacedmarbles (part one)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ih5t10JgWpU
 

How did MY SOUL begin - djmisplacedmarbles (part two)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8oF_NRoy_3M
 

Furthermore, I hope this helps everyone understand what I have come to learn over the years. Unless you are more aware/educated, your intuition or instincts can be blocked, just as your thoughts can be blocked. For further clarity on block thoughts, here is a two part video as well, call: Psychic Blocks and Spirits. The link is to video one and part two is attached to it. These, as in the true story videos above, can be viewed later, if you want. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W7n3m-WYPJ4

 

I am still learning daily. The more we dig deeper into the universe, for truth, the veil can be lifted ... unless you're still being blocked. How do I know about this? I lived it but I fought it and I'm still here to share it. Of course, sharing can illicit hate and ridicule from another who doesn't want me to share it or to keep another from knowing it. This is why I kept so much of this within me over many, many years .... from co-workers and some family and friends ... because I actually judged them for not understanding and in doing so I, sadly, held them back as well as me. When I realized that, I said enough was enough! By not judging anymore, maybe my reality could help another ... and so this chapter of sharing my journey began.

Lastly, this is not a joke and it's not just in the movies, people who scoff at this only makes me wonder ... who's blocking their energy ... their thoughts .... their instincts?
 

 

 

Looping: Circle of Life?

This morning I was ironing (a form of meditation to me) and an idea popped into my mind about our future selves looping for self perservation. They know the planet is dying, many eons from now, yet they devise a plan to preserve the human DNA along with developing time travel. 

They reach a point of no return (planet death) and time travel back to a select point in time to continue life at that point. As life and death continues from that point, and upon reaching that future time, we are programmed to loop back again. 

Gives a new meaning to the phrase ... circle of life ... and strangely enough, I've been hearing that phrase in my mind, for several weeks. For that matter, it gives a new meaning to eternity as well. 

Maybe that's why I got that thought this morning: could life, on this planet, be resolved and preserved with looping? 

Several scenarios I felt, while I continued to iron, was that we won't know who they are because they loop back into time before major records are kept. They give up an advanced civilization to a more primitive one, in order to preserve themselves as well as enhance their new environment ... our past ... with creating a better lifestyle. 

Maybe along the future time, some choose to pick a time to return that could be more advanced in civilization, pre-programming their return to fit in with all records necessary to do so. 

We wouldn't be aware of any changes that are made by them because it would still be part of current history. 

They did make a movie in 2012 called Loopers that involved time travel for evil intent that was, I felt, similar to the movie Terminator. However, were these movies to seed our imaginations based on fantasy, or have we actually sensed a hidden fact ... or trying to be hidden from us ... and placed them out as fantasy? 

I did write a blog before about looping but it was about a different matter. You can read it here: 

http://atomaraneadvice.blogspot.com/2012/09/loopers-time-travel-reality-or-fantasy.html

Anyway, I've heard stranger things. What do you think? They do say that truth is stranger than fiction. 

Could our current souls, reincarnated many times over into the future, cross paths with our current life?

Thoughts in the universe? Real or imaginary thoughts? Something to think about ... for us deep thinkers. ;-)

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Update: September 8, 2013 - The only additional thing I heard about this was this morning when I heard: no "human" will be on this planet when it dies. 

 

 

To The Victor Belongs The Spoils

To me, life is like a game of tug of war. You are constantly pulling or being pulled on until, eventually, you are still on dry land or you land in the mud. 

However, who really is the victor? 

You can say the one who remained on dry land, yet with the right attitude, you can say the one who earned a free mud bath. 

Life can also be about turning a negative into a positive. This takes the mindset to do it. No one can gain from anything they feel is negative, if they continually feed the negative. 

Understand?

Take time to evaluate each situation you feel is negative, in order to find the positive. It's there, if you really want to find it, but you have to remove those undermining, self-sacrificing, or guilt ridden blinders that keep you from seeing beyond the situation. Once found, then feed the positive. 

You can be the victor on dry land or the victor with a free mud bath. It's your choice to claim your spoils. 

 

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Title Meaning (Wikipedia): The phrase "to the victor belong the spoils" by New York Senator William L. Marcy referring to the victory of the Jackson Democrats in the election of 1828 with the term "spoils" meaning goods or benefits taken from the loser in a competition, election or military victory.

 

Picture credit from July 11, 2012 Tampa event on Tampa Bay Times.

 

Metaphysical Words: The Dangling Carrot?

I wrote a blog the other day about words that unconsciously control. Most know the impact that words can have. Of course, these are my truths, but I share them to see if others may have already come to the same conclusion. If not, this is alright too.

To reiterate, I have come to the conclusion, after many years of analysis, that words like "unconditional love" and "judgments" are metaphysical drugs to induce people into a fantasy that cannot be met in order to provoke self chastisement or worse. To reach for something that was never meant to be attainable, but used as a carrot in front of a donkey to get it to perform. 

We beat ourselves up, or others, for not getting it, but this "getting it" has become a detrimental fantasy that has created a lot of fervor and hate over words that constantly undermine us or for being unworthy. 

This can create blocks in our heart which we then have to work on releasing so we can be free ... so we can get over judging ourselves because we don't truly understand living and loving unconditionally ... which we secretly withhold that knowledge from the public so no one judges us ... which creates more blocks in judging ourselves. Vicious circle. 

All this being done in order to control the masses under pretentious doctrines? To have us running around in never ending circles?

The more I thought about this, the more I felt that we were putting too much emphasis on words, without truly understanding them, and that we are actually judging words that are judging us. Maybe that's the real "getting it" and as we evolve we understand this: the blinders come off, the puppet strings are cut and no more dangling carrot. 

As a guide once told me: "Words are not as important as emotions. People can say the same word but have a different emotion behind it."

I'm sure we can all think of a much "overused" word that we can relate this to. ;-)

In a recent response to a blog comment, I told someone: to be able to live in peace, one has to be free of controversy. 

I would rather work on that than boggling my brain over judging words that are judging me. I have more important things to do then playing word games.

Psychic Self Defense - Email Response

Every now and then I answer an email and guidance will ask me to share it to help others. I do what I can to channel information off the universe in order to tailor each response for every individual; it is a personal message just for them but others can learn from it. 

This one was in response to handling what they felt they were doing: drawing negativity to them. Along with understanding psychic abilities and protection. 

We can all draw negativity because it's part of life, but we can choose to live in it or not ... feed it or not. We can choose to whine, complain, hate, curse your life, or another's, day in and day out ... or not. You could be drawing it to you because you're living in it. You become your own worse "negative" enemy. You also become an energy vampire and eventually friends and family, not wanting to be sucked into your black hole, will walk the other way ... for protection. Can you blame them?

Also, I don't say my way is the only way, but only that it's my way. Though I still may have attacks, including sexual and physical, what I learned is what saved me, and allowed me peace of mind, over many years. It's like riding out a storm, sometimes, but I do what I can to be the calm within the storm. 

As they say, practice makes perfect, but I wouldn't wish anyone to have psychic attacks from an unseen force (including one's own mind) to become perfect in psychic self-defense, or to understand what I, and others, have experienced, yet, sad to say, sometimes this is what it takes. 

Those that have experienced mental or physical attacks, for whatever reasons, know the reality of it. It is not fun and can be very frightening. Gives insight to the saying: "don't speak ill of the dead." That is, unless you are prepared to deal with the circumstances or you know someone who will for you. 

This is why people ask me for advice and why I give it ... most want to learn. Besides, I would rather teach, and have someone learn, then to do it for them. As I have said many times before: I don't want to be "god" for you, I want you to be "god" for yourself. This allows, and doesn't deny, empowerment. 

That's why I blog and make videos. One day I will be "physically" gone but my words will hopefully live on to help those when I'm no longer there to do so. I can still share when I'm no longer there. ;-) 

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We can attract things to us for various reasons, however I am one who likes to thwart any negativity by turning it into positive. Kind of like ... what can I learn from this and how can I use it to better my life? This kind of attitude creates a more positive environment almost immediately. 

Negative things will happen to anyone at anytime, but how we treat it will be what helps or hinders us. We can sit around and say "woe is me" ... or ... "that was interesting." See? It's all part of living and learning ... and the right attitude helps. 

Also, I like to keep my mind involved in order to evolve. Learning things keeps us busy, as well as educated, and out of the darkness of fear based emotions that can control us. It keeps us from brooding over "bad" stuff. It's similar to saying ... ain't got time for that. ;-)

Also, since we all have brains, we all have psychic abilities because we all have a soul/mind that we are born with into each life. Yet, there are those that have a general understanding of what this means and those that are masters in this field. It's no different then any subject that can be learned, we can have different levels of awareness. 

Just as being empathic, most have this understanding, yet again, some more then others. Being empathic is the reason we can sense things around us.  Nothing wrong in that unless we are too open to other's emotions and forget to protect our own. 

I had to learn not to be too caring. I know that may sound harsh, but as one guide reminded me a long time ago, I'm no good for another if I'm no good for myself first. I had to learn to care but not over care. 

As I've been informed before ... I'm not here to save the world. Knowing that there is only so much anyone can do, allowed me an understanding that I can only do what I can when I can. I've incorporated those feelings in my inner guidance and can shut down on things now that I know I cannot have control over in any way, shape or form. 

This is important for you as well. Do what you can to protect your emotions with only doing what you can when you can and watch out for any flow that can lead you into destruction. After all, you too can only do what you can and will not be good for another if you haven't learned to keep a check and balance going within yourself. This is another form of psychic protection. 

Do what makes you happy. Smile often. 

Do what you are strongly pulled to do. If it doesn't feel right, don't do it. That is your true guidance. 

Hope that helps.

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For more information on this subject: 

Link: Paperback book on Amazon (also available in .pdf format and at Lulu.com with reviews).

http://www.amazon.com/Ask-Atomarane-Psychic-Possession-Attacks/dp/1257801252

 

Love Unconditionally And Don't Judge?

I've had this Avatar saying (below in bold) since the early nineties and I'm still working on accepting it. It's difficult because I see flaws. Yes, I have and still teach metaphysics, but I also learn and that's why I don't mind sharing; including this. 

Avatars: When you adopt the viewpoint that there is nothing that exists that is not part of you, that there is no one who exists who is not part of you, that any judgment you make is self judgment, that any criticism you level is self-criticism, you will wisely extend to yourself and unconditional love that will be the light of the world. 

Don't get me wrong, I do understand it, and have seen and heard all the justifying arguments, but I have had an issue with the words "unconditional" and "judgment" since first hearing them. I won't define the words as they are easy to look up on the Internet, however the reason why I have an issue is because of something I learned back then: everything, and I mean everything, has a condition ... including love ... and everyone judges even if you want to call it discernment. 

If you look deep enough, you will always find the reason or reasons someone does something. Sometimes, it takes looking beyond what we physically see to understand this. I did this many times over the years, which has reinforced my beliefs. 

This would mean any avatar, including Jesus, returned for a reason and had a condition to their return. Maybe Jesus didn't want to return, knowing he could be attacked (and was), but he must have agreed to it. He must have loved the idea more, that he wanted to present to the world, above knowing he would be crucified, but presenting that idea was still a condition. Obviously, he, and others, must have seen a need to change something in the world that, in their opinion, needed changing or why bother returning? Wouldn't any "condition" like this be "judging"?

Are they returning as teachers because the good of all outweighed the good of one? Do they indulge in self-sacrificing? Are they being duped by non-truths as many of us are? However, aren't these still conditions of their taking action to return ... based on their judgments of us?

We are taught that they were here to raise awareness ... to teach. Isn't that still a condition? If we are all part of each other, as the quote above states, why do we need to be taught? It should be there already. What you know, I should know, since we are all one. If we do need teaching us something, and there are those teachers to do it, isn't that still a condition? Are they not judging us? We have teachers who learn math, so they can teach math, because obviously we are not all one and someone must feels math is important. They may even judge us if we don't want to learn it, even if finding out we are not capable of learning for some reason. Are they doing it hatefully or is it an observation?

Why wouldn't we be allowed to just "go with the flow" whatever that "flow" is? Why would we need anyone to teach, or show us anything, if we are all a reflection of one another? Why would there be judgments or lessons to erase those judgments (sins)? Why would we need followers or a faith? Why would we need to continue any teachings? Wouldn't that be a judgment from these avatars returning, while at the same time telling us not to judge? Wouldn't those also be conditions?

This made me realize that, after studying my original soul, that this main soul of mine had conditions too. My original soul had a great love for our souls and minds, which means something was seen so destructive in order to force this soul to return. Obviously, with everything that happened to me, and others, it came true. Nothing was stopped, but was it suppose to be? Wouldn't "higher guidance" have known this? Was it just to "raise awareness" or teach lessons? Then why does it keep failing? It doesn't add up ... at least to me.

When you study the reasons any avatar may return, you will see these conditions. They all have a motive. They all have reasons. They all have conditions which are based on how they see things ... based on their judgments (discernments/observations) of right or wrong. 

This sounds a little hypocritical to me, based on that above quote. 

Also, how can anyone be "unconditional" on anything, including love. Love has always been conditional. You want someone to care for you as you do them. If not, you leave ... you move on ... or try to. These are conditions ... these are also judgments when they don't conform. 

Treat me as you wish to be treated: "conditions" of the Golden Rule. 

Sometimes another's conditions or judgments won't allow love as we may want. This is when we can destroy another because of love turning to hate ... which still has its conditions. "If I can't have you, no one can!" See?

So, I've come to the decision that avatars/gurus/teachers return for many reasons, yet their "love" is conditional. Their conditions may not always be fulfilled when they return, so they will leave, possibly returning another time. As in ... if at first you don't succeed, etc.. Returning because of what they judge in us, which they feel needs improvement. 

Maybe they feel they haven't been "crucified" enough by us, and keep returning to help, or possibly they have been hurt enough and will turn their backs in helping anymore. Maybe they will start feeling it's time to leave us to our own defenses ... due to their sorrow or disgust of our behavior. Another condition? Another judgment? Why not? After all, would anyone want to keep coming back and have people continually trying to destroy them ... not just for who they currently are but for who they may have been?

I know I wouldn't!

Furthermore, in my opinion, to not have any conditions means you would not have emotions (feelings). This means that avatars would be robotic and not empathic. I think not! They have emotions and they have conditions. I don't want to pick on Jesus, there are flaws in all of them, but he did throw a temper fit in the temple. Big emotions, if you ask me. 

Maybe they come back to help us get it,  whatever "it" is. However, as I said above, how many more times will they come back to help, be attacked, and finally decide we're not worth "it" anymore? 

I know what you might think ... even that could be a judgment by their relinquishing us: "They're not worth our love, we're done!" Yet, why wouldn't they be allowed their feelings too? They're not machines to be abused at our will. Even a machine would break down after continual misuse. Right?

Believe me, I'm not trying to be contrary, I really have thought this over and, to me, it's just simple avatar arithmetic. If they can't practice what they preach, how are we to understand it? Maybe that's why we can't get it, because it's just lip service and their truth is not true. 

Maybe it's not to be understood. Maybe that's why things are changing because of the current avatars that are teaching. Maybe the current avatars have come back to straighten out the messes they made in the past. I will bet that we still make more messes. We are only human, after all, and constantly learning. 

However, in this school called life, why should their judgments and conditions override mine; as long as I'm doing what I feel is being a good person and leading a good life ... based on my perception of good and not necessarily theirs?

If we are all a reflection of another, then that "other" should understand this without question or doubt. Since they are me and I am them. 

Hmmm ... ???

Exactly! We are all connected to the universe but not at the hip, I am me and they are themselves; including all the wonderful, yet perplexing, diversity in which all that represents. Including all the conditions and judgments in which that represents. We are many species, in this moment in time; we need to live in this moment in time and not in the past. Live in this reality and not something from five hundred, five thousand or five million years ago. 

This is fact! This is truth! This is life!

Just live ... that's the real "getting it." Not sitting in some guru isolation, spouting wisdom, but getting real with real life situations and real people ... and all that this entails. Just try to be positive and happy because life will do all it can to suck it out of you every chance it can ... judging, conditions and anything else. 

Besides, if someone tells me that I'm judging them, aren't they judging me at the same time? Seems too hypocritical to me to be part of this insanity anymore.

So ... when someone says you're judging, just reply: and your point?

When someone says anything about unconditional love, just reply: love is part of life and life has conditions. 

When someone says we are all one, just say: I hope not, I love my individuality.

Or not ... it's your choice. I won't judge you. 

Maybe. ;-)