Thursday, February 21, 2013

"You NEED To" Really Means ...

I have listened to many people saying many things during my life, however not always are they saying what they really mean. Have you ever experienced this?

My dad use to say, "Say what you mean and mean what you say!" Yet, I have learned that this isn't always easy to do or that maybe we shouldn't say what we are feeling, because then my mom's saying would pop into my mind: "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.

In the past I, normally, would respond to what they were saying but not what they were meaning (feeling) and I found this can and has seriously complicated a conversation.

Now, I try not to respond right away, the best I can, and try to connect to the truth of what this person is really saying using universal truth. This can still be daunting because you know you might still step on someone's toes due to the fact that they are really asking you to agree with them.

Then there is that passive approach of: I see, yes, I understand, not too sure yet, or my favorite, whatever. It can backfire if they think you are agreeing with them: well, you didn't say no!

My latest pet peeve is the statement someone can say that starts out as: You NEED to...

I have discovered that what they're really saying is: I WANT you to...

This is the main reason for this blog. I must have heard this several times from family or friends in the past few weeks that had me thinking: do I "need to" or what would be a better response to this statement then a passive approach?

Also, while hearing someone say this, "you need to," I was getting negative emotions off the universe. I decided to have a conference with my guidance and see if there was a better way of handling this situation, as well as not receiving their emotions anymore of: no you don't!

This is when I was told the proverbial quote of dying and taxes. Then I was advised of the basic NEEDS all species have of love, food and shelter that I learned in school. I was also advised to go to the Internet to research this word and I found this chart of our NEEDS that I posted for anyone reading this blog. This chart is our basic NEEDS making everything else WANTS.

To continue, I really didn't want to have a confrontation by telling someone that their need for me was really their want for self. What could someone say to change their perspective of their demand without creating an argument?

Yes, at times, a confrontation may be unavoidable. It may be best to just say how I felt, regardless, but keep it short and sweet.

I've decided it was best to take the bull by the horns and drawing it back to them by just politely saying: What you really mean, (say their name it draws attention back to them) is that you WANT me to do such and such. Then I can quickly add: I'll do what I can or I'll think about it.

By making them see the truth in their words it will really help them in their own honesty of their feelings. Hopefully this will help them see that they are expecting something from another that could be an unreasonable request.

It can also open that door to what they should do to help in this want of theirs. If they want it, what are they/he/she going to do to see it is done? This also will put the majority of the responsibility of said want back on them and not always on me.

Of course, everything is in the moment - go with your gut feelings, because some will not want anything but an argumentative agreement regardless.

However, if an argument does ensue I can always use one of my daughter's friend's quotes: when did you start paying my bills? It's a strong way of saying that they are out of line with their demands.

Remember, when someone says that "you need to" they are really saying "they want you to" and they are placing the responsibility on you to do something. It is their want which means it is their initial responsibility until you agree to terms of their want. Once you agree, be responsible on your end.

Be prepared; you might want to review this list of hierarchy of needs first.

Monday, February 18, 2013

A Gift for a Spirit Guide - Boyaed


Over twenty-five years ago one of my first spirit communication, automatic writing and voice channeling classes graduated and my spirit guide, known to everyone then as Boyaed, received a Busch Gardens sweat shirt gift from two of our students.

The students were husband and wife and both worked at Busch Gardens. They told me they wanted to say thanks for all they had learned by us and they gave this sweatshirt as a gift in our last class.

The shirt size is an XXL because those that were able to see him, as I did, knew he was a big guy - even in spirit. They presented it to me but told me it was for him but they knew I would wear it for him.

This was a big chuckle for all the students in the class and has become one of my most endearing memories, especially because it has a big Panda Bear on it. Maybe they thought he reminded them of a big cuddly bear. :)

All these years later, I decided to wear it again last week. I may have worn it a dozen times in all those years because living in Florida it doesn't get that cold to wear it more often. I'm sure that has helped in the lack of wear on it.

Anyway, my husband couldn't remember me wearing it before and asked me about it. I told him the story behind it and he said I shouldn't be wearing something that was so special, so it doesn't get ruined.

That got me thinking about telling this story and sharing the picture of it. I did tell this in my true story, "Great Flame Within," but this is a shorter version and it has a picture of the front of the sweatshirt that is not included in the book.

Thanks for letting me share this special story. I hope it made you smile as it does me when I think back on that day.

 
 

Saturday, February 9, 2013

Someone "Out There" Just Doesn't Like You


Yes, someone "out there" might not like you and could be attacking you, because we do not live in this universe alone, but you could have someone "out there" defending you too. That type of scenario could be what people say as being between a rock and hard place.

This morning I was having another loin (a word I never used until 25 years ago) attack, which started many years ago over my guide wanting to do a walk-in for me. There was such an argument over it, in the universe, that Jesus finally said, "Enough! Allow the love of the loins for these two soul mates." (This entire argument is in my true story book, Great Flame Within.)

And so the argument ended, yet it actually didn't. It ended that night but it continued covertly.

For you see the jealousy that ensued during and after that Universal All Call started my "loin" attacks with many vulgar words being heard by me and used by "them" during the attacks ... even with hateful demands to do this or that "or else" (most of which are mentioned in this same true story).

I did do what was being asked of me to do, at first, until I realized that no matter what I did, or said, that nothing would end this insanity that was coming at me. For you see, I was just a puppet to them and their insane joy was "pulling my strings."

I, of course being true to my stubborn self, did not choose to obey their commands and, because of it, suffered the many atrocious and vulgar attacks that came my way, eventually realizing that most of the things that occurred in my life were due to previous attacks by them. This allowed forgiveness on my part and angered them even more. Their relentless attacks to me and others were actually creating what Jesus also said in that same All Call: "relinquish your fears or you will be owned by them."

My life continued, I learned by all who came around me: that attack me or offer teachings and support. I kept my sanity by staying grounded in my 3D reality and staying busy ... among other things ... and eventually started building up a force of collective spirits that came to my rescue and even began protecting me. Safety in numbers.

Eventually I learned, due to the Internet and other sources, that many people were "awakening" and some also were or had been attacked.

One day it was suggested that these spirit beings around me (and possibly others) were also being used to hurt me and they should be removed. Yes, their minds, while asleep, could and has been used against me, however, we could have any minds used against us because our planet is surrounded by many minds ... spirits and physical ... of all species. Would it not be best to have a few minds that are awake and alert to protect while others sleep? This would be most logical to me.

This now brings me to my spirit protectors and a conversation I heard this morning that made me proud.

Male Voice: You either do what I told you to do or I will keep attacking you ... as I've been telling you for years. Do it!

Me: Kiss my ass and go to hell.

Spirit (female yelling): you heard her, she commanded you too. Why aren't you doing what SHE said? Huh?

Things went quiet around me but I could sense impotent anger from the male. However isn't that what some bullies do when confronted?

I thought: exactly, don't dish it out if you can't take it! Why should I do what you command without you accepting that you have to do what I command? Made sense to me.

Don't think that went over so well - hence the quiet. Yet, it proves a point that we cannot avoid many minds around us. Even any lesser minds that are willing to learn, and even if that learning is protecting, then why not? Why shouldn't they be allowed to learn even if that learning may induce more attacks? Because ... one day ... they will be stronger, more forceful and be a serious protection ... just because someone cared.

Then you can say: someone out there does likes me. A lot of someones. ;-)


 
 
If you care to read the true story it is currently available in many styles: print, ebook or .pdf at my Lulu website, Amazon, or Barnes and Noble. You can just Google the title.
 
This blog was to only show what I learned from what I went through and that you too can stand strong during adversity - with help. No one ever expects anyone to go it alone, which is how I felt it was with me. However, I learned this was not the case and this morning's conversation proved it again.
 
We are not alone, even when we think we are.

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Let It Be!

Strange occurrence should be normal to me but I still get a thrill when situations like this occur.

I was getting ready for bed tonight thinking of a personal situation that I am bouncing back and forth - waiting for an answer or inspiration.

Then, strangely, I began to think of Yoko Ono and her recent trip to the US which then changed to me thinking about John Lennon.

It was a brief moment afterwards thinking about him, and wondering about how he was doing, that this song came on the radio.

I think I got my answer. Listen to the words of the video I found on YouTube. :)

https://youtu.be/9VoRAZdc85I

Try, Try Again!


I saw something the other day about the similarities between Jesus and other people from the past.

It amazes me that there are those that find the similarities in these lives as being ludicrous - hence false or imaginary.

Hasn't anyone ever heard: if at first you don't succeed, try, try again?

Maybe there wouldn't be such a repeat in history if we got it right the first time ... or maintained what we learned.

Pay attention to the ones we want to "crucify" and hear what they are really saying not what you think they are saying.

These same teachers, even today, that are spreading the teachings of loving one another that do not have a big ego or self motivation.

No, I, personally, do not believe in unconditional love because even these teachers returned to teach love and this in itself is a "condition" which keeps them returning to teach nearly the same thing - over and over.

Maybe we might get it this time around. It might keep them from repeating themselves and returning to try, try again.




Disclaimer: I am not claiming that the above are factual occurrences, just that it is plausible to repeat history and most of us have had evidence of this in our lives.

Saturday, February 2, 2013

Sylvia Browne - Don't Drink the Koolaid

I was actually looking for something else today and found this website (link below) about psychic Sylvia Browne that I thought worth sharing after I read the research that was done on this site about her.

I first saw her on the Montel Williams show after I was "awake" and even then I felt doubt coming off the universe about her. Recently my sister-in-law had given me a lot of her books and told me she couldn't get into reading them. I took them home but also started feeling the same way.

Messages coming off the Universe were advising me to only scan her latest book and then I saw where she had mentioned that she did not remember what her guide said when she had full body channeled her. Ah-ha! Maybe that is why I was sensing the reason for the negativity my guides were giving me. Deceit was what I felt. The same deceit I had felt in others that had said the same thing.

Of course, people will believe what they want, but I called my sister to ask her if she wanted the books and her words: "no, she's a fake."

Oh - ok - move on to how to unload them with not feeling I should now. Now what? Yes, people will believe what they want but do I need to feed into it? Should I trash them or donate them - knowing what I now know? Maybe I need to understand all this more myself.

This entire scenario with her is appearing to me as a lesson: that going alone, and not being part of a support group, is not being allowed for a major reason. God's check and balance works in all worlds. It keeps the ego in balance - preventing huge egos. Egos that are more controlled by fame and fortune then love and truth. We sure seem to be experiencing this around the world in many professions.

Could this be the reason of her failures in prophecy? I too feel the need to ask the question - why is she still "out there" with her record of always being wrong?

Then I look around the world and realize that even with all the Internet sources for research there are those that may not have the mental capacity to think - "hmmm, this doesn't feel right, I will look this up to prevent something or someone controlling me."

Could the lesson be gullibility? I see this so often that I shake my head in despair, but the few times I did what I could to share my knowledge with someone I was snapped at - "what do you know!?"

Doesn't make me want to intercede with people like that if they are not open to communicating. I may not always be right but I do know, in this moment in time, who will win in an accident between a human and a truck. Get it?

Maybe they are blocked from thinking intelligently due to their guidance - or lack of guidance - through life. Keeping people in the dark makes them easier to control - to manipulate.

Maybe they are more concerned on who is winning on what Internet or video game to even care - they would rather play then think.

Maybe it's all lessons we all need to understand about giving our power away and she was, among others, just a wake up call to show us our inner self. "Fools rush in where wise men fear to tread."

Maybe it's because of what my husband told me the other day: "some people don't want to do anything but follow, they don't want to be leaders."

All I can say to that is: I hope they don't drink the "Koolaid."


http://www.csicop.org/si/show/psychic_defective_sylvia_brownes_history_of_failure



 
Addendum: Sylvia Brown died on November 20, 2013. May she rest in peace.

Thursday, January 31, 2013

Time and Dimension - Time Travel

Originally posted on my social media page on May 6, 2011
Time and Dimension - Are you ready??

I know this is long but I have been nudged to share - so here goes - again.

Also, as I heard someone once say: "It's not the questions we are asking. It's the questions that we don't ask."

That is until someone comes along and gives us an ah-ha moment.

Some may read this and say: Yes! Others may say - Who Cares? Then there may be those that scratch their head and say - Huh? But reading it, I hope, may "open" a door of new awareness.

I just posted some recent websites about time and dimension due to the lack of understanding I have been hearing that some still have due to past ideas. I have been "hearing" for a long time that time is in all dimensions. Actually, it was Albert Einstein that first told me this years ago and, I guess, "time" as they say will tell. ;-)

Apparently, what was known yesterday (even to him or what he was allowed to share during that time) is not what is known now. This is the way it had been throughout history – taking us out of dark age thinking – but it has always been a fight to get us to move on from those past thoughts due to proof. We all desire proof – as it should be.

The problem with education is that we learn something and stand on it's principles without opening the door to new or better ideas - we get stuck in a rut of old truths that may not even be truth. How do I know this? I have been beaten up over old truths most of my life - especially these last 20+ years of being a conscious telepathic empath.

I had someone tell me once that I was years ahead of my time. I told her that it really was the other way around: people were years behind the time due to an inherited (genetic) fear of the unknown (at least unknown to most). Think of that first time doing anything and how you felt. The more you did it the easier it got to do it. No more fear of it - generally – depending on the subject matter. Yes, there are exceptions to most rules.

To continue, there are many areas of newer understandings but most don't take the time to investigate and they perpetuate the old ways (or current non-truths) due to their lack of allowance (stubbornness- indifference) or unawareness (busy in other areas) until someone tells them otherwise. I too have been guilty of this.

Also, most metaphysical people don’t want to correct anyone. We've been told that we may be judging someone. Is it a judgment or is it allowing someone else’s freedom to being more open to new ideas as we have had ours - by sharing? With my guides they allow an emotion of truth - it frees me of my confusion. In freeing me it allows me to help others – if they want to be helped.

I like open minded people – they discuss a subject in order to fine tune it – to free it – without judgment, name calling or childish and boring behavior. No - this is not a judgment. It's what I call - "calling it as I see it." ;)

That's what being open-minded means - accepting that a particular way may be a stagnation of a deeper truth – let’s discuss it let’s get it out into the “open” - air it out. With guidance around me, I am always asking - is this the truth? Even if it is the truth of the moment - I have learned to accept that the next moment the truth may have changed due to new awareness.

There is a truth of the past - regarding time and dimension - that has always been the ultimate "truth" – because the past cannot be changed - only the future. At least that is what we have been led to believe because time cannot go backward only forward. That is until recent awareness about possible time travel may not be possible but a reality.

So, who is to say that our past has not been changed due to time travel and what impact it can have - if this deed is/has been done – impacting our current now? We wouldn’t know anything changed – we would still be in our moment – including our past moments leading up to today’s moment?
Again – how would we know?

Well – I know! Watch this video about what I say about time travel and multi-dimensions, etc. I've shared it before but hopefully it will be more understood. It's what my guides shared with me some time ago.

I cannot take credit for this – it has come from many sources (including some of the highest science minds in the universe). Why? Because I’m always asking for the truth!! And as MLK, Jr. said – the truth will set you free.


My video - Parallel Universe - Multi-Dimensions Plus - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3nwZHJaBO1w

Perceiving the Truth

 
I have been thinking about putting a few of my notes that I have on another social media under my blog here. This one is on Perceiving the Truth which was originally published on June 15, 2011 and I posted it here back in April 2012, but I decided to add some comments made by a few people and deleted the other entry.
 
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This is what I've been doing for years on my Atomarane YT channel, through personal emails, as well as answering comments on videos ... with a lot of help from guidance:

SUBSCRIBER: I mean no disrespect, but how do you perceive the truth; how reliable are the answers to the all questions you get from either the spirit world and/or your extraterrestrial guidance?


ATOMARANE: None taken. How do I perceive the truth? Just like anyone … by sensing it. It’s like when you get the impression someone is being deceptive to you, or you sense that they may not really understand what they are telling you … possibly perpetuating non-truths/gossip; it may create feelings of doubt within you or coming to you from universal guidance.


What's more, some people think their “guidance” is perfect, I do not. I feel they are capable of error as we are; for many reasons that I have learned and will endeavor to explain. To begin with, that’s when I learned to sense if any doubt was being felt and why that was. Feeling doubt, in my opinion, may be important and necessary for people to have. I believe that this helps us make our own decisions based on what we feel … to discern the truth for ourselves. Of course, discerning truth should be aided by knowledge and wisdom.


Furthermore, when people tell us things, and we sense doubt, we know that there are times that we may not be able to prove what they are saying, in that moment. With me, I could be blocked: the answer is not being allowed. It’s then that we learn to accept or reject it depending on the importance of the subject. I may back away until I know more, if I want to know more, or if it is allowed. I do my best to keep my empathy vigilant, because I have learned that it’s when you think you know all the answers that it will be when you find out you don't; never assume … never be arrogant. This is what makes me dig deeper if it is allowed.


To explain allowed: I know the difference in emotions coming from someone that is guiding me to back away because of the love they have for me and wanting me to remove myself from the energy being presented or someone that may be subjecting hate or deceit to me, to keep me from knowing something. As I said before, that’s when I back away until the time is allowed … the time is right … if it is allowed … if I have permission. Also, allowing doesn’t mean putting up with but that’s a different topic.


To continue, this knowing comes with time and learning. An empathic person tends to see, feel and know the truth when it's presented and when clarity is there. Clarity is very important … it’s the difference of swimming in a clear pool compared to a murky pond.


I have learned not only to heighten my empathic abilities but my telepathic abilities due to all that I've gone through in life; this helps my perception. If I feel any uncertainty, I may ask them to find out why this is, to please rectify it for me, or to see if I’m being blocked. After all, if I'm going to have this many beings around me they have to work too … I'm not doing it all by myself.


Regarding blocking the truth, I have learned that not always is it someone being deceitful. It could also be the “universe” holding things back from me … as a parent may do to a child … allowing for the proper time to open that door … waiting for permission … waiting for the right time … providing protection. Being a knowledgeable adult, we can understand that a toddler will not understand the “facts of life” as we do and it will be difficult for them to comprehend what we are saying if they are not ready to hear it. Also, a “wise” adult wouldn’t put a weapon in the hand of a toddler because we have learned that with knowledge there should be wisdom and responsibility. I am not saying they think I am unwise or irresponsible to have this truth, but there are other things to be considered. As I said before … maybe for protection … or the timing is off. Even timing is important in searching for answers.


Which is why I have also learned that some answers are not for me; there are others here to do things too. As I have been told, no one person on this earth will be setup to have all the answers on every topic. No one person will “play” God for mankind. Call it an ego stabilizer but I like to think of it as … God only knows and He’s not talking … yet.


Anyway, this is how I do things. I hope this helps.

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Note: Asking permission was taught to me in order to show respect and privacy for others, just as I would want from others. There are only a few exceptions where this will be overruled. This is true divine guidance and everything else is ego oriented.

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A few comments made on my social media about this, which I thought would be nice to share as well. For everyone has a truth - has a perspective:

1) It always helps to hear a different perspective than our own. We are only blessed and more learned to have this message from you TEACHER. Thank you so very much.

2) Fantastic I completely agree. We are not always ready to know the truth because we may not be advanced enough to know what to do with it or to even handle it. I admit many times I have the truth shoved at me yet I choose to ignore it because I don't want to deal with it. It niggles in my mind, forcing me to give it some attention but I always think...nothing is written in stone. The truth may be the truth now but it can morph into something else, change completely. So it's a catch 22...I listen to the truth and act upon it and then disallow it to maybe change into a different truth, or I wait and sometimes risk in case it changes. How many intuitive people do not know a secret yet all the people around them do? Some may have 'guessed' it...yet they know and the intuitive doesn't..because it is not time for them to hold that truth. They are not ready




















An ET/UFO Story - Is Seeing Really Believing?


I'm always wary of projected thoughts to my mind while meditating but, many months later, I keep getting a feeling of something going on with this one. Which is why I thought I'd finally share this incident of what I saw and heard one night.

I think the reason I rejected all this was because it was too Saturday Night Live for me. However, at the same time, not much at all.

I'll start from the beginning. I was helping a Florida woman, that I knew only on Facebook, who was going through a psychic attack and, as she said, she felt were extraterrestrials. All I could do is ask my guides for help as well as teach her all I knew about protection.

One night, I was awakened by a friend, an androgynous, reptilian extraterrestrial, that I knew and felt I could trust due to the many years of helping me: Ladoarona. Why should I judge anything coming from him? Yet, afterwards I kept receiving so much doubt, and blocking me, on what I saw and heard that I backed away. However, like today, I was reminded again of this incident as if it should be shared.

Maybe the doubt and block was coming from those who did not want me to share, but for what reason? Maybe they played on my time being consumed with my father's illness and eventually crossing over, along with handling his will among other personal things. Several personal life events had my time taken elsewhere; keeping me sidetracked and not allowing me to further investigate or even caring to investigate. Was this done on purpose?

If so, why the nagging to report this? Curious. Why would anyone care and for what reason? True or not, one would think it would have passed if it wasn't important for some reason and I can still feel, even while typing this, the urgency to see this through.

To continue on with what happened: as I said above, I was awakened in the middle of night, as often happens, and as I was lying in bed I had this intense and very vivid picture sent and held briefly to my mind ... similar to when meeting Zabrona. This entire scenario may have taken a minute if not less.

What I saw was two ET, uniformed beings, standing inside a UFO. I could see, through the huge craft's window, the pair standing behind a panel that looked as if it was used in flying the machine ... sensing this as I looked at them. One was a male that was talking to a female as if he was directing her to do something. She appeared to be the one controlling the panel.

As he was speaking to her, I noticed it was not in any language I could recognize but I was more fixated on their looks. They had heads similar to the Coneheads on the SNL show but they were not pointy. They were the same circumference from forehead to the top and rounded, with the top of their head nearly as tall as this picture below that I found to give a reference. At the time, curious enough, I even wondered how this much weight could be carried on their necks, as their bodies, from the chest up, (because that was all I saw) appeared similar to ours.

As I watched the male giving the female orders, someone sent me strong emotions that these were the beings messing with this woman. Another younger, male ET entered the "cockpit" and said something to the first male and, at this point, the projection being held was released and things went dark. I fell asleep shortly afterwards with no more communication.

They were definitely having a conversation and nothing I could interpret. The only thing I felt was orders were being strongly given and they were to be followed. Not enough time in all that energy to interpret more and afterwards, as I said, I decided to move away from it all. Until today.

Also, just now, I realized that I do not believe I have had any information from Ladoarona since this occurrence. Very curious.


Coneheads on the Saturday Night Live


Sunday, January 27, 2013

Blaming Gives Your Power Away!


I wanted to share this excerpt below because of something that happened to me today regarding people dealing with so much inner turmoil from outer circumstances. It is what I learned from my guide, Boyaed, in October 1987 regarding blame, allowing and power. It is in my true story book: GREAT FLAME WITHIN, The Story of a Forgotten Master.

I did another blog on blame in August 2012 with another excerpt from my book if you want to read that too. Click on the link below.

 http://atomaraneadvice.blogspot.com/2012/08/blaming-giving-away-your-power-to.html

To me, there will be exceptions to this rule due to certain circumstances. There will be those that do not know how or want to maintain their power. As my husband said, there are those that do not want to lead and only wish to follow.


_______October 1987________

"They don't understand. How can I make them?"
 
Quietly, as if Boyaed felt I was just talking out loud, he answered. "Charlene, they don't want to understand. Sometimes, people need an excuse to rebel or sabotage others; you're giving them one. Something they have been looking for, apparently. Don't let it worry you.
 
For you see, they all want to see the blame in everyone but themselves. A responsible person puts the blame, if you wish to call it that, within their own realm, themselves, and then they set about to rectify the error that was created.
 
It will give you more peace of mind, if you just allow the truth within yourself that you are the director of this play and are in full responsibility. You will then see how much you maintain your power and be in full control of your life. Try to be more allowing in their truths, as well, and they will come along, in time."
 





  

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