When we get feelings to move away from certain people, because of disloyalty or uncaring attitudes, it is not the same as feelings to move away from all people to isolate or conceal ourselves. People are important part of human interaction for learning and growth. Yet, first and foremost, our loyalty is to our self preservation and happiness.
It's best to move on if we are unhappy with the people around us and we're not able to change things. Why keep holding ourselves back from people who want to be loving and caring? What law says we have to tolerate those who choose to be unkind to us or others?
If that's their path, we don't have to take it with them. Release these people from our life with love and not hate. Hating someone creates illness within us not them. Part of letting go of "ego" is realizing defeat in a situation. It is better to allow defeat of a situation then defeat of ourselves.
Self preservation isn't selfish, it's self-caring.
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